Monday, March 3, 2014

Choosing a Future

I'm trying to choose a future.

If I succeed in being hired for a full time librarian job, then I will take it.  I have applied to work as a French teacher and as a Media Specialist for Atlanta Public Schools.  If I get such a position, I will take it.  I have allowed my idealism and my realism to wrestle and the winner is ... pragmatism.  Thus, I need money and working full time in the U.S. will allow me to have it.

The alternative is to continue to be a ruffian and teach English in the Republic of Georgia and maybe go to Korea to teach for six months.  I'm not sure about doing either since I am receiving mom's Social Security Benefit money and using it to pay the mortgage and house bills.

A friend, Alésandra, reinforced the idea that I take vacations in the summer and work full time as a French teacher.  I found her advice profound.  I ask myself if I would really be so satisfied working abroad.  Perhaps that life is over for me at least for now.  Perhaps I could reignite that life in the future.

Thus... if I stay in Georgia and work full time.  I could get married and have children.  That opens a new door of life experiences.  Perhaps it's time that I embrace that aspect of adult life.  Well, I will try to relax and be patient and not go crazy over estimating my potential future.

I feel like I am giving up, but maybe I am just growing up?  Only God knows.

As for love, I like Ava.  We do have differences that I think we both shield from the other, but we admire each other as friends.  She has a house given to her by her mother.  She has that responsibility so I think it won't be easy for us to be together.  I reminded myself that I like Melissa Grammont.  I don't know if she could like me, but we do talk to each other easily.  I may ask her if she wants to go out.

Working at Upward Bound... can be a challenge.  I learn SO MUCH from the students about high school life of today.  There's a lot that I didn't know.  At times I get annoyed at the staff and their side-chatter, but I've learned to endure it and move on and keep my personal hope alive.  At times I have little interest in living in Georgia due to my experience of working there.  I just get that feeling that working an Atlanta public school will just be worse.  I believe my hope will be a librarian job or something in archives, but getting such a position is DIFFICULT!  Which is a big reason why I constantly want to leave and teach abroad.

Working at Habitat for Humanity is better, but the work is new.  Perhaps I will have problems later, but since the work atmosphere is ecumenical and corporate, I don't feel agitated there.  However, I know that I should tackle my hair.  I get so lazy about it though that I don't care how my hair looks at all most of the time.  I guess I shall shave myself bald finally.  I may keep the beard.  I like the beard.

I guess if I get a full time job, I may buy a car, but if it's not necessary, I shall not.  A car is a chasm of cost that I have been avoiding like the plague!

I guess that I'll figure out my future little by little.  I must keep things in perspective and not lose hope.  I could go to Georgia, but when I think that I'll return to the U.S. for work... I don't feel completely confident about the future.  Mom's health is also a great factor in my decisions.  I think that ultimately I shall stay and not go.  Let's see.

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